Gareeb

Conflicts 

 

Conflicts are a daily part of life.

Conflicts are as an inherent part of our life as eating, drinking, and sleeping. When a conflict arises, think and look at the source.

The sources - Circumstances, Individuals, and Mental Overthinking all constitute a source.

 

Conflicts due to circumstances are most difficult to resolve. 

In the majority of the cases, there is no resolution.

The next best approach is to look for substitutions to minimize the

impact of circumstance-based Conflicts. The choice of substitution itself may evolve in a new Conflict - now or in the future. A well-thought-out choice of substitution will determine the effectiveness of Conflict resolution.

 

Conflicts due to individuals are easy to resolve.

In majority of the cases, individuals with their own agenda cause a Conflict. If the Conflict is due to a choice among individuals, choose

one you know most. Future is always uncertain, knowledge is the best choice. Minimizing the importance of an individual will help the Conflict resolution. Future shall reward you for minimizing the Conflict.

If the Conflict is due to whole mankind, there is no Conflict - it is just life.

 

Conflicts due to mental over thinking are self inflicted.

In majority of cases, Conflicts are periods of self examinations.

If Conflicts are generated because of sublime advice of others, do not torture yourself. Most advisors will project themselves to be your bnefactors. Alas the advisor is not you and advise will escalate the Conflict. If Conflicts are based on self-examination or just paranoia or period assessment of the past - continue to think.

Past is not present. Present is not future.

Resolve the Conflict for the future without attaching a penalty of self assessment.

 

Conflicts are an integral part of our lives.

Our friends, family and relations are sources as well as possible resolution of the Conflicts.

The biggest winning formula against a Conflict - a momentary listened advice of the heart and a prayer.

 

Go where your heart and prayers take you - future will be brighter, Conflicts will be lesser.